Parenting Siblings as an Only Child

Parenting can be humbling. As an only child, I sometimes feel lost navigating sibling dynamics in my own home. Recently, my three kids have been fighting more often — not just at home, but even in front of their friends. To me, that kind of constant bickering signals disconnection.

I find myself teetering between two parenting instincts: stepping in and addressing every squabble, or letting them work it out on their own. Yesterday, after one too many arguments, I hit a breaking point. I handed out consequences, including a couple days away from friends, and I even printed out a self-reflection worksheet for them to fill out. Maybe it was a little “extra,” but I also believe kids are old enough to put their feelings on paper and learn from it.

Later, though, guilt and confusion crept in. I woke up at 4:30 a.m. questioning whether I was too harsh, wondering if other moms feel the weight of their decisions as much as I do. My sensitivity to my kids’ emotions sometimes leaves me feeling alone in parenting. That heaviness spilled over into tension with my husband, and I was left praying that this breaking point might actually serve as a turning point for all of us.

Whenever emotions run high like this, I often look to my chart to see what the sky might be stirring. Right now, the Moon is transiting my natal Mercury and Venus in Leo in the 4th house — and suddenly, it all makes sense.

What This Transit Means

• Moon + Mercury: Words feel heavier with meaning. We crave emotional honesty and may need to be heard, especially within family spaces. Conversations can feel more intense, sometimes nostalgic, and old wounds may resurface.

• Moon + Venus: Our need for affection and harmony rises to the surface. In Leo, this desire is bold, expressive, and tender. We want to feel loved and adored — but also safe enough to let our hearts show.

• The 4th House Influence: Family, home, and emotional security are spotlighted. Sensitivity is heightened, and the desire to nurture (or be nurtured) intensifies. The gift here is realizing we can create the warmth we long for instead of waiting for others to spark it first.

How This Shows Up in Real Life

For me, this transit highlighted family tension, communication breakdowns, and the yearning for a loving, connected home. The shadow side surfaced through conflict and guilt, but the lesson was clear: I need to speak from the heart, set boundaries with love, and actively cultivate the warmth and connection I want in my home.

Reflection for You

When the Moon moves across Mercury and Venus, it only lasts a day or so, but it leaves an imprint. It’s worth pausing to ask yourself:

• Am I speaking from my heart or reacting from frustration?

• How can I create beauty and connection in my home today?

• Where can I express affection — and allow myself to receive it?

💫 Astrology has been such a grounding tool for me in parenting and family life. If you’re wondering how the current sky might be reflecting your own story, send me a note — I’d love to explore it together.

And in case you are interested in what I read to them and then gave them to fill out....